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This article was co-authored by Lisa Shield and by wikiHow staff writer, Glenn Carreau. Lisa Shield is a love and relationship expert based in Los Angeles. She has a Master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology and is a certified life and relationship coach with over 17 years of experience. Lisa has been featured in The Huffington Post, Buzzfeed, LA Times, and Cosmopolitan. There are 10 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 60,187 times. How can you safely and easily find the dominant boyfriend of your dreams? It’s easier than you think! Start searching online with communities and dating apps that understand that dominant and submissive roleplaying in the bedroom is totally normal. [1] X Research source Date around, explore your options, be true to yourself, and have fun. Read on for a complete guide to finding a dominant boyfriend. Make a Fetlife profile. Even though you’re looking for a dominant boyfriend, it’s also always a good idea to have a few friends who can offer you support. Use Fetlife to meet other submissives, and look out for one another in your search for a partner. Be careful when getting into online communities, especially if you’re new to the dom/sub experience. Some people might try to take advantage of you, but you’ll be okay as long as you’re cautious and stick to your boundaries! Advertisement. Use a kink-friendly dating app. Other solid kink dating apps include KinkD, #open, Kinkoo, and Whiplr. Search around and pick one that fits your needs the best! Once you connect with someone, flirt a little to find out what they’re into. Break the ice, and then send them a link to your Fetlife profile to see if they like the same things you do. Ask a friend of the opposite sex to take a look at your profile and see how it sounds. They might have some tips for how you can improve it. [3] X Expert Source. Join BDSM social media groups. Facebook and Twitter have resources you can use to find a dom boyfriend. If you’re not ready to try a kink-specific app, try joining a Facebook group geared towards kink or BDSM. You’ll meet like-minded people, make friends, and maybe even start a steamy new romance. Narrow your search to local communities if you want to meet someone close to you. A Twitter hashtag search like #BDSM could also yield results. Advertisement. Go to a munch. Even if you only meet friends at a munch, they can introduce you to their friends, and you might just meet your future boyfriend that way. As always, be careful about giving away information to strangers. Get to know the people you meet and let them earn your trust. Meet him in public first. Try meeting up for coffee at your favorite cafe or having dinner together. If you’re nervous (which is totally natural), go somewhere that makes you feel comfortable and calm. It’s rarely safe or healthy to start having private meetings and getting intimate right away. Advertisement. Bring up kink soon, but not immediately. It’s okay to be nervous when talking about kinks. However, they’re perfectly normal and usually an important part of your sex life. Be brave and tell your guy what you like. [6] X Research source Use your best judgment to determine when to bring up your preferences. There’s no perfect” time, so wait for a moment that feels right. Your date may send signals. If his online profile mentions his own sexual preferences, you can talk about yours sooner. If he seems to be taking it slowly between you, wait until he’s ready. Be honest about what you want. Communication is vital for any relationship, especially with dominant and submissive partners, so be honest and transparent with him. [7] X Research source Once together, dominant and submissive partners make their own “rules” about how their dynamic will work, but there’s no protocol right off the bat. Simple kindness and courtesy are all you need to make an excellent first impression. Advertisement. Communicate boundaries clearly. Take some time to research BDSM and find your comfort zone. Know what you want before you look for a dominant boyfriend so that you can easily find a compatible partner. Once you have your boundaries, you can quickly and clearly say “no” to anyone who tries to cross them. Watch for qualities of a good dom. A good guy will have your best interests at heart, be open to communication, and actively listen to you. Even if he’s aggressive during intimacy, in a way that you’ve both consented to, he’ll never get angry if you tell him “no.” [10] X Research source Signs of a bad or fake dominant include anyone who tries to intimidate you, gets very sexual right away or uses pet names before you’ve started dating and gotten comfortable with each other. [11] X Research source When a dominant/submissive relationship is handled with care and respect, it’s as healthy as any traditional relationship. Advertisement. Be careful and selective. You’re not obligated to do anything you don’t want to do, so don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! Join the Discussion. I’m ready to get into the dating pool and find a good guy that’s right for me. I just don’t know where to get started lol. I feel like you can’t just bump into people like in the movies, so where do I even go to find a potential boyfriend these days? Any tricks to make a guy notice me and keep chatting with me? I want to hear it all! Sarah Schewitz, PsyD Licensed Psychologist. There’s always online dating, which is probably one of the more convenient ways. It’s nice that you can sit on your couch and not have to go meet somebody for that initial kind of connection, but some people find dating sites really draining. There are other ways that are great for many people, such as just living your life and doing what you love. Put yourself out there, find hobbies that bring you joy, and you may find someone that has some similar traits as you. As a woman meeting a man, you’re kind of assessing if he’s safe, if he’s kind, if he’s the type of person you want to be with. Those are the people you want to look for.
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